.My JOURNAL 136 : LIHOLIHO and SOAP ROSES

Can you guys believe it, We survived the first month of being newlywed! Yazz to forever! 💗

Now that we have been married for quite some time, people keep asking us those dying questions "So what's the difference between just bf and gf vs married life?" and the baby question "when are you guys having a baby?"

Well to be honest, the answer to the first question was that the moving in together part is the only diffrences I see so far in our marriage. Our relationship is still the same. We still treat each other like we were still boyfriend and girlfriend rather than stating to each other that you are my wife now or you are my husband now.

And as for the baby question, well for now we are focusing our attention to working hard to achieving our goals for next year. My hubby bear's fam wants to buy a house here in the Bay Area weather it will be across the bridge or buying a house here in San Fran. Having the baby is not part of our plans for now. In order for us to be ready to have a baby, we need to have a space and financial stability to even think about having a baby.

Also personally I am not ready to have a baby. I still think that I need to work on myself first. What I mean about that is I need to know where am I heading on with my future career and do the things I want to do first before having thoughts of having a babies.

Maybe in 2 years, if I have accomplished all of my future goals, we might consider it. But for now, No baby questions.

For the meantime, we will just cherish what we have for now. After all we are just newlywed couple!

Celebrated our 1st month together as married couple at Liholiho 🌺

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As we waited for our food to come, I received an email from a job interview that I recently applied, and guess who got the job? MOI!!! MEE!!! MYSELF!! AND I!!!!

It's a triple celebration that night: Hubby's promotion, our 1st month as a married couple and I, getting a new 2nd job!

Anyway, here comes the yummy food...